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You Could Make This Place Beautiful

A Memoir

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About The Book

INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • NPR Best Book of the Year Time Best Book of the Year Oprah Daily Best Memoir of the Year

“A bittersweet study in both grief and joy.” ­—Time

“A sparklingly beautiful memoir-in-vignettes” (Isaac Fitzgerald, New York Times bestselling author) that explores coming of age in your middle age—from the bestselling poet and author of Keep Moving.

“Life, like a poem, is a series of choices.”

In her memoir You Could Make This Place Beautiful, poet Maggie Smith explores the disintegration of her marriage and her renewed commitment to herself. The book begins with one woman’s personal heartbreak, but its circles widen into a reckoning with contemporary womanhood, traditional gender roles, and the power dynamics that persist even in many progressive homes. With the spirit of self-inquiry and empathy she’s known for, Smith interweaves snapshots of a life with meditations on secrets, anger, forgiveness, and narrative itself. The power of these pieces is cumulative: page after page, they build into a larger interrogation of family, work, and patriarchy.

You Could Make This Place Beautiful, like the work of Deborah Levy, Rachel Cusk, and Gina Frangello, is an unflinching look at what it means to live and write our own lives. It is a story about a mother’s fierce and constant love for her children, and a woman’s love and regard for herself. Above all, this memoir is “extraordinary” (Ann Patchett) in the way that it reveals how, in the aftermath of loss, we can discover our power and make something new and beautiful.

Reading Group Guide

You Could Make This Place Beautiful by Maggie Smith

This reading group guide includes an introduction and discussion questions for your book club. The suggested questions are intended to help your reading group find new and interesting angles and topics for your discussion. We hope that these ideas will enrich your conversation and increase your enjoyment of the book.

INTRODUCTION

In her long-awaited debut memoir, You Could Make This Place Beautiful, award-winning poet Maggie Smith explores in lyrical vignettes the end of her marriage and the beginning of a surprising new life. A story that starts with Smith’s personal, particular heartbreak quickly grows into a reckoning with contemporary womanhood, family, work, and patriarchy. With the spirit of reflection and empathy she’s known for, and a razor-sharp wit, Smith interweaves snapshots of a life with meditations on secrets, anger, forgiveness, and narrative itself.

You Could Make This Place Beautiful is an unflinching look at what it means to live and write our own lives. It is a story about a mother’s fierce and constant love for her children, and a woman’s love and regard for herself. Above all, this memoir is an argument for possibility. With a poet’s attention to language and a transformation of the genre, Smith reveals how, in the aftermath of loss, we can discover our power and make something new. Something beautiful.

TOPICS AND QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION

1) You Could Make This Place Beautiful plays with the genre of memoir both in terms of style and structure. How was the book different from other memoirs you have read?

2) Smith writes that this book isn’t a “tell-all,” it’s a “tell-mine.” Through the course of the book, one has the sense that Smith will never fully understand what happened to her marriage. How do we move forward in life when we experience inexplicable ruptures (a friendship that ends suddenly, the unexpected loss of a job)? How can we make peace with the not knowing?

3) The epigraph of the book is a quote from Emily Dickenson: “I am out with lanterns, looking for myself.” In what ways is this memoir a search for self, or even an excavation of self?

4) In “A Note on Setting” on page 13, Smith writes “If you opened me up, you’d find Ohio. . . . Setting is not just where I am, it’s who I am and what I am and why. It’s not just where I live, it’s how I live.” Do you feel this connection to your current home or a past one? What role does it play in your identity and how you live your life?

5) Throughout much of the book, Smith discusses her past and current selves, noting, “We are all nesting dolls, carrying the earlier iterations of ourselves inside. . . . Inside forty-something me is the woman I was in my thirties, the woman I was in my twenties, the teenager I was, the child I was.” If you had to think of your own life in this way, what moments stand out? What are the past versions you envision of yourself?

6) How do issues of domestic labor and traditional gender roles play out in the book? Were there aspects of Smith’s story that you related to?

7) In reflecting on her marriage and her own mother’s life in the family home, Smith notes, “I saw myself and my husband as different—more progressive, more equal in our household, both with graduate degrees, both respected in our fields—but were we? The division of labor in our home told a different story.” How do you divide and think about labor in your own home? Do you wish it were different or want to change it? Did Smith’s discussion of these themes throughout the book impact your thinking at all?

8) Smith writes, “what would happen if I weren’t needed as a caregiver? What would the story be?” What would your life look like if you weren’t needed as a caregiver? What would be different, both in how you live your daily life and how you perceive yourself?

9) Throughout the book, Smith sets boundaries with the reader, choosing to reveal certain details and omit others, even naming a chapter, “This Moment Isn’t for You.” What did you think of these narrative choices? Were there times you wanted to know more? Why do you think that is? Are there details you omit when thinking about the story of your own life or when describing it to others?

10) Smith frequently discusses the music that forms the soundtrack of her life. Do you have artists in your life that you feel especially connected to? What role does music play in your daily life and in your memory making?

11) After Smith’s poem “Good Bones” goes viral, she tells a reporter, “I feel like I go into a phone booth and I turn into a poet sometimes. Most of the other time, I’m just Maggie who pushes the stroller.” If you’re a parent, do you feel this separation in identity between your work and your role as a parent? How does that separation make you feel?

12) The title of the book is taken from the last sentence of Smith’s viral poem in which she states, “I am trying / to sell them the world. Any decent realtor, / walking you through a real shithole, chirps on / about good bones: This place could be beautiful, / right? You could make this place beautiful.” How do you “make this place beautiful” in difficult times?

13) In “A Note on the Title,” Smith writes, “Sometimes I feel like I titled this book Kittens and Rainbows, and then I wrote hell.” What were your expectations of the book before reading it, based on the title and cover? How did they change or stay the same after reading?

14) On page 110, Smith describes her social-media post that would eventually lead to her book Keep Moving. Have you read any of Smith’s other poems or essays? How does her previous work connect to and/or differ from You Could Make This Place Beautiful?

15) Consider the first sentence of the book (the epigraph, “I am out with lanterns, looking for myself ”) and the last sentence of the book (“I have waited for you all my life”). Do you think Smith finds herself in the end?

About The Author

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Maggie Smith is the award-winning New York Times bestselling author of eight books of poetry and prose, including You Could Make This Place Beautiful, Good Bones, Goldenrod, Keep Moving, and My Thoughts Have Wings. A 2011 recipient of a Creative Writing Fellowship from the National Endowment for the Arts, Smith has also received a Pushcart Prize, and numerous grants and awards from the Academy of American Poets, the Sustainable Arts Foundation, the Ohio Arts Council, the Greater Columbus Arts Council, and the Virginia Center for the Creative Arts. She has been widely published, appearing in The New Yorker, The Paris Review, The Nation, The New York Times, The Atlantic, The Best American Poetry, and more. You can follow her on social media @MaggieSmithPoet.

Product Details

  • Publisher: Atria/One Signal Publishers (April 11, 2023)
  • Length: 320 pages
  • ISBN13: 9781982185855

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Raves and Reviews

"In a series of short vignettes, Smith reveals her emotional acuity and quiet wisdom on love, trust, marriage and motherhood, as well as the nature of creativity and the ramifications of success. As a chronicle of a divorce and a meditation on parenthood, it’s unflinching, insightful and exquisitely written."
—The Guardian

“Maggie Smith’s book is one of the most powerful memoirs I’ve ever read....This book makes me see the women in my life in a new light, not that they are different, but I am.”
—Kwame Alexander, Oprah Daily

“Rich in nuance and unrelenting in its honesty, Smith’s memoir is a bittersweet study in both grief and joy.”
TIME

"This book is extraordinary."
—Ann Patchett

"A beautiful book...stunning."
Oprah Daily

"A triumph"
—Mary Louise Kelly, NPR

"Smith turns to prose to chronicle the end of her marriage and the hard, beautiful work of loving and valuing herself."
People

"Throughout, she quotes the Emily Dickinson line 'I am out with lanterns, looking for myself,' and the book shines with a light all its own."
New York Post, Best Books of 2023

"Sparkling & brilliant. Maggie was able to put into words things I’ve always felt as a writer and a human."
—Daisy Perez, CBS Mornings

"[An] elliptical, inquisitive book"
Buzzfeed

"By engaging anguish directly, Smith carves a space for the beautiful over the heart that holds initials alongside 'forever.'"
The Rumpus

"This book is a gift."
—Leslie Jamison, bestselling author of The Empathy Exams

"Beautifully written... Smith should be just as celebrated for her prose."
Town and Country

"Incredibly relatable...At turns devastating and darkly funny."
Columbus Monthly

You Could Make This Place Beautiful is about recognizing your own worth in your relationship, and in the world.”
Slate

"A poet’s memoir... [Smith] has an uncanny ability to boil down giant ideas into tiny, dense sentences that are both playful and heartbreaking."
Shondaland

"An anatomy of....an artist stepping into her own light, of a mother working out how to create a loving family on her own."
BOMB

"Smith’s prose is as warm and welcoming as her poetry."
Chicago Review of Books

"Smith opens her heart like a book, dog-earing moments both painful and joyous...Smith's conjuring of beauty through pain and her special blend of vulnerability and encouragement go down like a healing tonic.”
Booklist (starred review)

"You Could Make This Place Beautiful is a sparklingly brilliant memoir-in-vignettes that only Maggie Smith could write. Yet this is a book for everyone—who among us has never had our world upended by the loss of a relationship? Maggie Smith’s powerful mastery of language, and amazing ability to portray life in all its rich messiness, is on full display in this bold, brutally candid, and yes, beautiful, book.”
—Isaac Fitzgerald, New York Times bestselling author of Dirtbag, Massachusetts

“In this lightning bolt of a debut memoir, Maggie Smith gives us the truth of healing in form as much as story: getting through is no pretty, linear narrative. It’s one chapter forward and five chapters back. You Could Make This Place Beautiful gave me back a part of myself I thought was gone for good: the knowledge that beauty isn’t something out there to find. It’s in us.”
—Megan Stielstra, author of The Wrong Way to Save Your Life

“Listen, you may not need me to tell you what you already know about the shining star that is Maggie Smith, but you can certainly add me to the chorus of those singing her praises about You Could Make This Place Beautiful. Among her singular gifts as a writer are the way she swiftly brings her poetry to her prose; her willingness to show up to the page with aspirational levels of vulnerability, grace, and joy; and a clarity of heart amid the heartbreak that together makes this a moving and gorgeous must read.
—Elizabeth Crane, author of This Story Will Change

“When personal tragedy strikes us, first we have to survive, then we have to begin healing. This exquisite book will help you do both. Reading Smith's memoir, I laughed and gasped and ugly-cried and somehow began to process ten years of my own pent-up, frozen grief. This book is nothing less than a cathartic miracle.”
—Alissa Nutting, author of Made for Love

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